Maybe you were young and
found that being married did not suit either of you and felt that divorcing
would be for the better. The two of you kept in touch and a couple years later
found new love together, your older and more mature, and now may be the right
time for marriage.
If you have recently divorced
it may be more difficult to get back together, your ex may have bad feelings
and be resentful with you or your marriage and have no interest in talking to
you. It takes time to get past the anger or heartache for both parties and you
should take some time to get past this without hounding your ex.
When a decent amount of time
has past you can send birthday cards and such, but do not send a Valentine
card. You could call and say you are doing ok and that you can see that getting
divorced was a good idea. If she is not happy with her life she may be
interested in talking with you again and this could be the beginning of a
reunion.