The question of how can I save my marriage comes up often amongst friends. While your friends may not be able to help you, the answers to your problem may be obvious.
Life can have a way of not letting you see the answers to your problems. You can get caught up in things that you do not give yourself a chance to properly look for your solution. Instead of focusing in the solution we focus on the problem.
If you were to focus on the solution instead of thinking about how much damaged is being caused in your marriage. You must be able to shift your focus so you can resolve an issue.
Worrying about a problem in your marriage is not going to fix it. Start communicating with your partner> Avoid fighting over it, this will not fix your relationship either. Bring the issues out into the open for you and your partner to see and discuss.
The sooner the two of you do this the better. You must set aside a time to have a discussion. Pick a time that there will be no distractions. If there is a chance either of you will be distracted at your chosen time reschedule.
The two of you deserve to give full attention to this. If one of you feel your marriage is in trouble this makes for a high priority meeting that should not be interrupted. Anything else you thought were important can now wait till later.
When you have your quiet time together, one of can open up the conversation. If only one of you think there is an issues then you should have time to bring up there thoughts. If needed both parties should have equal time I this discussion.